Hi Damien - I had a quick look at your website and noticed that you don't seem to try and collect any names.
If I were you I'd have an Opt-in asking for names and email addresses and perhaps offer a free eBook. Maybe you could use the articles you have and turn them into an eBook on "Tips about how to attract women."
Then when you've collected enough names you could offer a free Webinar. You could set the Opt-in up on the right panel where you currently have "Upcoming events"
Also, each page on your website should be search engine optimized for particular keywords (One or two main keywords/phrases per page) and each have a separate meta description incorporating those keyword phrases.
At the moment they all seem to say "joomla" . I can see this when I open up each of your website's pages and then going to "View" and then "Page Source".
One of your competitors would appear to be:
www.attractwomen.com.au/
They have the following keywords and description for their home page:
<meta NAME="keywords" CONTENT="Attract Women, Attract Women Dating tips, Seduction lair, Pick Up Artist Sydney, etc
<meta NAME="description" CONTENT="How to Pick Up a Girl next door? Ask dating coach How to Attract Women in Sydney, etc
You should be doing something similar for each of your webpages.
As far as Forums are concerned make sure you have your website in your Signature and have it perhaps read School of Attraction Sydney.
When looking for additional keyword phrases try using Google's Free Keyword Tool.
https://adwords.google.com.au/select...rdToolExternal
For example -the keyword phrase [how to attract women] has quite a lot of monthly searches so one of your pages could be search engine optimized for that particular phrase.
Regarding outsourcing your search engine optimization you may like to check out this affiliate link
SEO Pack
Hope the above helps a little.