Mobile mania: Are you a nomophobe?

nomophobe nomophobia mobile maniaRemember the monstrous mobiles we used to carry around in the late 80s? Today’s mobile phone is a far cry from those days - now they’re faster, lighter, stronger and more convergent than ever before, but are you becoming a nomophobe?

Not only do we use mobile phones to talk and text, they have become digital cameras, movie cameras, diaries, phone books, GPS locaters, radios, MP3 players, web browsers, data storage devices, encyclopaedias, alarm clocks, dictaphones, personal organisers, flash lights and more.

I appreciate that used wisely, mobiles are a great productivity tool. But more and more people are showing the signs and symptoms of mobile addiction, also known as nomophobia.

While getting married, starting a new job or going to the dentist have long been recognised as sources of great stress, a recent British report identifies a 21st Century affliction that upsets people just as much – the fear of being without mobile phone contact.

Some users have become so dependent, that discovering their phone is out of charge or misplaced is enough to send stress levels soaring. Up to 13 million Britons are sufferers with researchers concluding that as many as 53% of mobile phone users worldwide could be affected.

This new affliction has a name: nomophobia.

The numbers start to get alarming when you consider that globally, two billion people own a mobile phone with estimates that half the world’s population will have one within the next two years.

Here in Australia, researchers at the Queensland University of Technology have led a similar study on mobile phone addiction. They found the average Australian spends an hour a day making calls and sending text messages, with 22% of respondents classified as heavy or very heavy users (spending four hours or more a day using their mobiles).

Here are some questions to help discover whether you are you a mobile addict or nomophobe:

  • Do you get anxious if you don’t get an instant response to an SMS?
  • Does the thought of turning your mobile off send you into a panic?
  • When you go out to dinner, do you put your mobile on the table in front of you?
  • Do you feel unloved if your phone doesn’t ring, ding or zing for a few hours?
  • When you hop off a plane or finish a movie, is your phone the first thing you check?

If you answered yes to any of the above you may just be suffering from nomophobia.

The above questions are a bit of fun, but the addiction is real. Some mobile addicts tend to neglect obligations like work or study. They can drift apart from family and friends, send and answer messages throughout the night and suffer anxiety attacks at the thought of switching their phones off.

They also tend to suffer more sleep disorders. The majority of mobile phone addicts have low self esteem and feel the need to be constantly in contact with other people via their mobile.

If you’re worried that you’re at risk of becoming a nomophobe, here are some tips for breaking the habit:

1. Turn your mobile off when at movies or sporting events. You don’t need it on 24/7.

2. When concentrating or finishing a project, turn your mobile off to avoid interruptions.

3. Go out to dinner with your loved ones, not your mobile. Set it to silent and put it in your pocket or bag, rather than the table.

4. Set mobile hours – learn to turn it off at night.

5. Further, don’t sleep with your message alert on as this can wake you up throughout the night, causing disrupted sleep patterns.

6. If you must have your mobile on, set the ringtone to a quiet setting. The whole world doesn’t need to know that your phone is ringing.

7. Try going mobile free for a day or two. Who knows, you may just enjoy the peace and quiet.

Are you a nomophobe? Or perhaps you despise mobile phone technology.

Share your thoughts below.

Main sources: Queensland University of Technology Mobile Survey; Sydney Morning Herald – Mobile phones becoming a major addiction; Global Technology Forum – Addicted to the phone; Science News.

Andrew May is considered Australia's leading expert on performance and productivity. He is a corporate speaker, business coach and bestselling author of Flip the Switch.

 

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  • Here's something far more sinister than self inflicted stress for nomophobes (no moblle 'phobia') to consider. The alarming prediction of increased brain cancer from mobile phone use. Check out http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-wellbeing/health-news/mobile-phones-more-dangerous-than-smoking-802602.html
    and be afraid.
    carl from Sydney

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  • After owning a 24/7 service company for 7 years where my mobile had to be turned on for emergency calls, I'm still have problems turning my phone off, even though I no longer own that business and have an entirely different business now.
    Turning the phones off at night ( I have 2) is a habit I'm finding hard to start as when I do turn them off, I often then forget to turn them back on !
    Any suggestions/hints would be gladly appreciated!
    Sue Heins from Sydney, Australia

  • I own my own website business and I have 2 staff members - I recently went to NT for a 2 week holiday. My phone was on for the enitre time, but up there, service is not readily available and at times I was out of range for several days at a time. I must say - it was wonderful - no ringing from clients, I simply put a message on my phone that all clients should call the office for the 2 weeks as I was on holidays - and hardly any calls from staff with issues - as they couldn't get me, they had to work it out themselves and guess what? Clients called the office and the staff worked out any issues. It was wonderful - we still really can live without being completely relient on a mobile phone. Ros from Creswick

  • I don't get it. Once upon a time, we were able to function happily without mobile phones and still ran successful and profitable businesses. What's changed? People answer their phones in the middle of the conversation you are having with them (face to face); or while you are wating in line to be served, the person being served will take a call and hold you up; you constantly hear what is happening in other people's lives because they talk so loud on the bus or train etc. Since mobile phones have become so common, people have become more rude and insensitive to the people around them. People drive and talk on the phone without a care in the world about the people around them. They have done nothing to improve society but create debt for young people, cause injuries (texting) and accidents (driving), and as the article suggests, low self esteem, sleeping disorders and maybe even cancers. What is so good about the mobile phone? Simon from Albury

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